Counseling or therapy helps you manage caregiving stress
Talking with a counselor or therapist is a shortcut to figuring out how to deal with the stress and emotional conflict that come with being a caregiver.
Instead of struggling on your own, why not talk with an expert who can give you advice and tools to cope with the emotional and physical challenges?
Some people roll their eyes when they hear about therapy. But don’t dismiss it so quickly.
Therapists or counselors are experts who help people deal with negative thinking, stress, depression, anxiety, major life changes, and more.
We explain how therapy helps caregivers, share 4 sources of affordable counseling services, and explain how to find a therapist in your area.
How does therapy help caregivers?
A therapist is a trained listener who won't judge you.
Their advice is unbiased, everything that’s said is confidential, and you can talk about topics you wouldn’t feel comfortable discussing with your spouse, family, or friends.
They can be especially helpful as a sounding board or providing a neutral perspective when you’re struggling with tough decisions like moving your older adult to assisted living or hiring necessary in-home care against their wishes.
4 sources of affordable counseling services
1. Therapists covered by health insurance
Many large healthcare organizations offer therapy that’s covered by their insurance plans.
Talk with your doctor to get a referral or call your health insurance provider to find out if therapy is a covered service.
2. Low cost or sliding scale therapists
Many therapists offer low cost or sliding scale fees. Sliding scale means that they charge people differently based on their financial situation.
Fees range from completely free to around $100. Here are a few options:
- Academy of Cognitive Therapy
- Open Path Psychotherapy Collective – affordable, in-office and online psychotherapy sessions between $30 and $60
- Network of Care – click the “Mental Health / Behavioral Health” section on the left
- U.S. Dept. of Health & Human Services health centers
3. Free, immediate mental health support
- Crisis Text Line – 24/7, get free support anytime by texting HOME to 741741 to connect with a Crisis Counselor (from the U.S.) and a live, trained Crisis Counselor receives the text and responds, all from their secure online platform.
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 24/7, call 1-800-273-8255 anytime for free and confidential support for people in distress and prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones.
- NAMI Helpline – Monday through Friday, 10 AM – 10 PM Eastern Time, HelpLine volunteers answer questions, offer support, and provide practical next steps. Call 1-800-950-NAMI (6264), text “HelpLine” to 62640, or email helpline@nami.org
4. Free workplace Employee Assistance Programs
Many large companies have Employee Assistance Programs (EAP) where counselors help you deal with life changes and other stressful situations.
If you haven’t seen or heard about these programs at your office, check with your Human Resources team. Usually, your company won’t be informed about who uses these services, so you shouldn’t be afraid to use the help.
How to find a therapist in your area
If the options above don’t work for you, there are plenty of private pay therapists around.
Click here to visit the Psychology Today website and enter your zip code.
You’ll get a list of therapists in your area. There’s a lot of detail on each therapist, including:
- Fees
- Degrees and credentials
- Areas of practice / specialties
- Years of experience
- State license number
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About the Author
Connie Chow
Connie was a hands-on caregiver for her grandmother for 20 years. (Grandma made it to 101 years old!) She knows how challenging, overwhelming, and all-consuming caring for an older adult can be. She also knows how important support is — especially in the form of practical solutions, valuable resources, and self-care tips.
I’m lonely and diabetic. I have limited mobility. I need transportation to get meds and groceries.
We share some helpful transportation options here – 6 Affordable Senior Transportation Options https://dailycaring.com/6-affordable-senior-transportation-options/
Your local Area Agency on Aging may also be able to connect you to organizations that can help with transportation as well as with social programs that can help you connect with others. More info here – Area Agency on Aging: Resources for Seniors https://dailycaring.com/area-agency-on-aging-resources-for-seniors/
Even though I’m not a caregiver, I have been thinking about a way to help manage my stress. As you said, a therapist would probably be a good idea. There are options of who I can go with so I’ll see about finding someone that fits within my budget.
That’s great, we hope you find a therapist that works well for you. Having a trained counselor to speak with can be very helpful in reducing stress.
Medicare also covers therapy with social workers, LMFT, psychologists, etc. Go to the Medicare website and search for therapists in your local area.
Great point! Here’s information about what Medicare covers in terms of mental health care https://www.medicare.gov/coverage/outpatient-mental-health-care.html