Social media gives people more opportunities to connect and socialize, something that’s especially important for preventing senior isolation. But there are risks and challenges. Laurel McLaughlin explains why social media can be dangerous for people with Alzheimer’s or dementia and shares 4 tips to keep them safe while supporting their independence.
Social media provides connection, but has a dark side
Social media networks like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram are an ever-increasing presence in our lives.
They allow us to connect with those living far away, reconnect with old friends and distant relatives, and even make new friends through common interest groups.
While this ability to stay connected has so many benefits, there is also a dark side to social media sites.
It is unfortunately common for accounts to be hacked, data to be shared, and viruses spread.
Also, it’s common to see an overwhelming amount of upsetting or falsified news, since those stories spread rapidly on social media sites.
Seniors use social media to increase socialization and connection
Social media has the power to create community.
According to a 2019 study by Pew Research Center, the percentage of people over age 65 who use Facebook more than doubled from 20% in 2012 to 46% in 2019.
This is important because social media has the power to decrease isolation and increase connection for people who otherwise may not have many opportunities to socialize.
Dementia and social media
As a person ages, so does their risk of developing some form of dementia or cognitive impairment.
On the internet, someone with dementia may be at a higher risk of falling for a scam, sharing private information, or viewing potentially upsetting information.
While supporting someone living with dementia, the goal is always to promote independence in every way possible, while also ensuring safety.
But it can be challenging for any care partner to consistently monitor social media accounts.
Difficulties include not knowing account passwords and not being able to track down all posts and interactions.
So, how can we protect our loved ones with a memory impairment on the internet, while also allowing for socialization with true friends and family members?
Here are 4 tips that may, at the very least, give family caregivers more insight into their loved one’s social media use.
1. Learn their passwords
Early on, talk with the person with dementia to see if they’re willing to share the account’s password.
You might explain that you won’t interfere with their online activity and that having the password would allow you to help them in case they misplace their password or help them watch out for online fraudsters.
Then, if they’re willing to share it, keep the password stored in a safe offline location and use it to periodically check on their account.
2. Ensure that privacy settings are strong
Go through the account’s privacy settings and make sure that all settings are at their strongest, so that only accepted friends can see posted information.
3. Monitor their friend lists
Regularly check on their friends or accepted contacts list to keep tabs on any unrecognizable “friends.”
4. Connect with trusted friends and family
Identify a few trusted family members or friends who are also on the social media site and are aware of the dementia diagnosis and ask them to be an extra set of eyes.
Often, a post or comment can be made and then be nearly impossible to find later. Having a few people looking out for unusual activity would increase the chances of seeing any unusual or suspicious activity.
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Guest contributor: Laurel McLaughlin is a recent graduate with a Masters in Gerontology. She has a decades worth of experience in supporting seniors age well, whether at home or in senior living. She is passionate about teaching seniors and their families about care options and safety. (The tips compiled in this article are not necessarily reflective of the author’s employer.)
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