11 Ways to Get Someone with Dementia to Take Medication

get someone with dementia to take medication

Why would someone with Alzheimer’s refuse medication?

Getting someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia to take their medicine can be a constant challenge for many caregivers.

Refusing to take medication could be a response to being confused or feeling afraid of what they’re being asked to do.

Your older adult might also feel like they don’t have any control over their life, which could make them generally angry or resistant.

To make this important task easier and less stressful, we’ve got 11 tips to overcome challenges and convince someone to take their medicine.



11 ways to get someone with dementia to take medication

1. Create a calm and quiet environment
When it’s time for medication, start with a calm environment.

Make sure there aren’t any loud sounds like TV or commotion like lots of people around. You could also try playing soft, soothing music.

Before you start, take some deep breaths and do your best to stay calm throughout the process. If you’re agitated, frustrated, or angry, they’ll be able to sense it and will also become agitated and less likely to cooperate.


2. Be alert to side effects or illness that make them feel sick or uncomfortable
Someone might refuse to take their medicine if it makes them feel sick, uncomfortable, or if they have an illness.

Many medications cause unpleasant side effects like nausea, stomach aches, agitation, or dizziness and your older adult might not be able to tell you that there’s a problem. If you suspect this could be the issue, speak to the doctor about how to improve the situation.

They could also have something else going on like dental problems that make their gums or teeth hurt, poorly fitting dentures, a urinary tract infection, a cold or flu, or a sore throat.


3. Eliminate medications or supplements that aren’t absolutely necessary
Many seniors take multiple medications. Sometimes doctors forget to review medications to see if they’re still needed.

The last thing you need is to try to get your older adult to take more pills than absolutely necessary.

Speak with their doctor to see if any medications are no longer needed and could be safely discontinued.

Fewer pills = less hassle over taking medicine.


4. Make pills easier to take
Some pills could be too large and hard to swallow.

Talk with your older adult’s doctor or pharmacist to see if any of their medications could be changed to a liquid formula or if you could crush the pills and add them to applesauce, yogurt, or food.

Make sure to ask before crushing any pills because not all pills are crushable. Some can become less effective or even unsafe.


5. Use short sentences and don’t explain or reason
Don’t get into a conversation about why they need the medication or explain why it’s important that they need to take their pills.

Reasoning with someone with dementia simply doesn’t work. Instead, use short, direct sentences to help them accomplish the goal.

For example, you could just hand them the pill, demonstrate what you want them to do by putting a pretend pill in your own mouth, and wait patiently for them to put their own pill into their mouth, then say “Big drink of water.”


6. Look for things that trigger distress
Sometimes other things about taking medication can upset someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia.

For example, they could feel distressed when they see a lot of pill bottles. In that situation, you could keep their medication bottles out of sight and only bring out the pills they need to take at that moment.

Similarly, if seeing all the pills they need to take makes them anxious, you could give them only one pill at a time and keep the rest out of sight.


7. Be their medication buddy
Taking your own medicine at the same time they do can make it more of a buddy experience. You might say, “It’s time for our medicine. Here’s mine and here’s yours.”

If you don’t take any medications, see if you can get away with “taking” a harmless food item like an M&M or Skittles candy.



8. Don’t force it, try again in 10-15 minutes
Sometimes there’s nothing you can say or do to get your older adult to take their medication.

If that happens, don’t try to force it. Leave them alone for a bit so you can both calm down. In 15 minutes (or so), give it another try.


9. Find the right time of day
People with dementia often have good and bad times of day. Trying to give medicine during one of their bad times isn’t likely to work.

For example, if your older adult typically gets sundowning symptoms, avoid giving medication in the late afternoon or evening unless the doctor absolutely requires it for an important medical reason.

Think about the times of day when they’re in the best moods and adjust their medication schedule to meet those times.

Of course, before making any changes to their medication schedule, talk with their doctor to make sure the new schedule you’d like to use is safe and won’t cause any problems.


10. Stick to a daily routine
A daily routine can do wonders for someone with dementia. With a regular schedule for taking medication, your older adult will get used to it and become more cooperative.

Give them their pills at the same time every day. Do it in the same place, like when they’re relaxing in their favorite chair, and use the same cup for water.

For some people, making medication part of their after-meal routine works well because they’re still in “eating mode.”


11. Offer a treat
Young or old, we all love treats. You might consider offering a treat as a reward for taking their medication.

For example, put a small piece of chocolate in front of your older adult and say that it’s their treat after they finish their pills.

It might even help take away any bitter taste the medicine leaves and associates something positive with taking medicine.


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By DailyCaring Editorial Team
Image: GPonline


  • Reply May 14, 2019

    Jamie thimons

    I am a CNA that takes care of patients with Dementia everyday. It’s a battle for them and all you gotta do is not change their routine on a day to day basis.keep them as calm as you can and put yourself in their shoes !! It’s a disease that a lot of will encounter eventually without any knowledge of it .. love them and treat them as you would your own !!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️I love my job!!

    • Reply July 28, 2019


      Wonderful advice! Your patients are lucky to have someone as kind and compassionate as you to care for them 💜

  • Reply April 23, 2019


    I do need more tips to help my wife to take medications

  • Reply March 28, 2019


    I have been taking care of my mother who has dementia for the past 3 years now she’ll be 83 in July it’s to the point to where she doesn’t move around much and now she has contracted a couple of bed sores what is the best medication to use for bed sores

  • Reply March 4, 2019


    What do you do when someone demands their pillbox. They are not competent enough to put the pills in the box properly nor do they remember to take the pills. They want to be in charge of their medication and it is a daily demand. They take their pills without issue, but want to be in control of them. This is the situation with my mother in law. We are having trouble getting doctors to diagnose her with anything other than traumatic brain injury, but she has no idea what day of the week or month it is. She doesn’t know what goes on from hour to hour. We have tried giving her pillbox back to her on several occasions but she ends up taking more than she should. I think because she forgets that she already took them because she has no concept of time.

    • Reply April 3, 2019


      It’s natural for someone to want to control their medication, even if they’re not able to correctly manage them.

      Since your mother-in-law has cognitive impairment, she definitely needs help managing her medications and supervision when taking them. You may have to experiment to find ways that will allow you to not upset her and keep her safe from over- or under-dosing.

      Depending on her level of impairment, some ideas will work better than others. But the only way to know for sure is to try. One idea is to give her a fake pillbox with fake medication (tiny candies like tic-tacs or similar). That way, she feels like she’s in control, but when she “takes” her medication, it won’t harm her. Then, you’ll need to find ways to get her to take her real medications in a way that won’t make her suspicious — maybe by crushing them and putting them in small portions of food (assuming the pharmacist says that’s ok).

      You could also try making it easier for her to know what day and time it is. This doesn’t work for everyone and depends on her level of cognitive impairment, but may be worth trying. For example, many people have said that a clock like this one (https://amzn.to/2nm36OD) is very useful for people with dementia. A jumbo-sized wall calendar like this one (https://amzn.to/2LSu5zc) could also help.

      There isn’t a perfect solution and you may end up just having to endure her anger to keep her safe until this phase passes, but experimenting creatively will help you find strategies that can improve the situation.

  • Reply January 8, 2019


    I am the caregiver for my 100 yr old Grand Aunt. Lately she’s started refusing her meds. Looks like every 3rd or 4th day. All she needs is her dementia meds and blood pressure pills twice a day. Oh, and Trazadone for depression and to help her sleep. She’s very lucid since I’ve changed her diet but being lucid is bringing out the ‘meanness’ in her. I’ll be contacting the pharmacist to see if I can crush these meds, but mixing it in her food will be a challenge. Next to applesauce I’m drawing a blank on what else I can fool her with. She loves diversity in her snacks.

    • Reply January 13, 2019


      It’s great that you’ll be speaking with the pharmacist to find out what alternatives would work with her pills. That’s always important to do. Hopefully, some of the suggestions above will help the situation.

      For additional snack ideas, creamy snacks are good candidates for pills that can be crushed. Keep the portion that contains the crushed pills small to make sure she will finish it all and get the full dose:
      — Dips and spreads with crackers or cut veggies, there’s lots of variety in dips to keep the food interesting
      — Yogurt
      — Smoothies
      — Mashed potatoes or sweet potatoes
      — Soups
      — Ice cream
      — Pasta / egg / macaroni / potato salad
      — Cottage cheese

    • Reply January 27, 2019


      Try Honey my mom is 83 and loves it

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