Finding the right activity for someone with dementia isn't about filling time; it's a powerful form of care that can reduce anxiety, spark joy, and restore a sense of purpose. But so many well-intentioned activities backfire, leading to frustration for everyone.
The secret isn't adding more stimulation; it's shifting your entire approach from achievement-based tasks to connection-centered experiences. The following “no-fail” ideas are designed to help you create moments of calm, happy engagement for you and your loved one.
Why These Activities Work for People with Dementia
Everyday activities can become too complex for older adults with Alzheimer’s disease or dementia.
When other hobbies fail, these ideas succeed because they focus on what remains, not what's lost. They are built on core principles that reduce anxiety and promote success:
- Engage the Senses: Scent, touch, and sound can unlock positive memories and emotions without relying on short-term memory.
- Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome: There's no “right” or “wrong” way to do most of these, which eliminates the frustration of failure.
- Use Muscle Memory: Repetitive, simple motions (like folding or rocking) feel familiar and calming to the body.
- Prioritize Connection: The ultimate goal isn't a perfect product; it's a moment of shared experience and nonverbal bonding.
10 Fantastic, Failure-Free Activities for People with Dementia
Each person is unique, so it may take some experimentation or creative thinking to find activities that appeal to them.
Safety note: Avoid sharp objects and only give items that are safe for your older adult. For example, if they put things in their mouth or tie up body parts, avoid using string, small items, or objects that can break when bitten.
VIDEO: Great Activities for those with Dementia
1) Fold Towels Together

Asking an older adult to help you fold laundry is a great way to keep them occupied, provide an activity they can excel at, and help them feel like they’re contributing to the household. The goal is to keep them happily engaged.
Simple, repetitive tasks like folding warm towels or matching socks can provide a profound sense of purpose and usefulness. The tactile sensation is also calming. Towels are great because they’re small and easily folded.
No matter how well or poorly the towels are folded, the point is that an adult with dementia feels good about the activity, and about themselves.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Keep a dedicated basket with clean, simple-to-fold items like washcloths and hand towels. When restlessness strikes, you have a ready-to-go activity that feels genuinely helpful.
2) Activities for People with Dementia: Create a Memory Box

A memory box (or rummage box) can help an older adult feel connected to their past career and previous hobbies.
Acquire any box and fill it with items they would have used at work, copies of photos, and non-important keepsakes, or objects from hobbies.
For example, for a former office worker, create a box that reminds them of their career. In the box, include paper clips, pencils, erasers, paper, junk mail (letters), a calculator, file folders, notepads, and other relevant items.
If the person used to do handy work, put nuts, bolts, PVC pipe pieces and fittings, a piece of wood (no splinters), fine-grit sandpaper, and twine in their box.
Someone who enjoys cooking or baking may appreciate measuring spoons, a whisk, a spatula, and other related kitchen tools.
This approach can work for any job or hobby; be creative in finding objects that are safe to handle.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Rotate the objects every few days to keep the activity feeling new and interesting without being overwhelming.
3) Untie Knots From a Rope or String

Find a rope of medium thickness at your local hardware store. Loosely tie a few simple knots and ask an older adult to help you untie them. Simple right? You'd be surprised at how pleasing this can be for someone who desperately wants to find success at just about anything.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Make sure that the knots aren't too difficult to untie. We're aiming for entertainment and success, not frustration.
4) Arrange Flowers Together
Provide a sturdy vase and a few fresh, fragrant flowers with the stems already cut to a safe length. The vibrant colors and gentle scent are wonderfully engaging.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Gardenias, lavender, or roses offer intense, pleasant aromas. Guide their hands gently if they need help placing the flowers.
5) Create a Box of Fun Fabrics or other Objects

This is fun for everyone, but especially for someone who used to enjoy sewing or fabric crafts.
Get a box and put dozens of pieces of assorted fabrics inside. Try to get different colors and textures, such as lace, felt, silk, velvet, wool, and cotton.
An older adult can enjoy touching, folding, and sorting the fabrics, or organizing other items.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Use items that are too large to be a choking hazard. The satisfying “clink” of buttons going into a metal tin can be part of the sensory appeal, but they can be dangerous if ingested.
6) Make a DIY Picture Puzzle
As we explore activities for people with dementia, here's a great idea: Print a copy of a favorite family photo or scenery unique to your older adult. You could also print out a photo or image they like, like a car or colorful fruit.
Laminate the photo and cut it into four (or more) puzzle-piece-shaped pieces to make a personalized DIY puzzle.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Avoid using controversial pictures or photos that may trigger unpleasant memories. Use images that you know won't trigger your loved one.
7) Cut Pictures From Old Magazines or Calendars

Older adults may enjoy browsing through old magazines or calendars and cutting out their favorite images to keep. It’s best to use magazines that reflect their hobbies or interests.
Those who’d enjoy it could also paste the pictures into a notebook, creating a fun “scrapbook.”
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Purchase some safe scissors, such as those used in schools for children. You don't want to risk a cut while enjoying an activity like this one!
8) Purchase a $7 Puzzle Cube
This fun puzzle cube is brightly colored and can provide lots of no-pressure entertainment for older adults who enjoy fidgeting with objects. It’s like a simplified version of a Rubik’s Cube.
The object of this game is to enjoy turning the cube pieces and creating different color combinations on each face. Those who are able might enjoy mixing up the colors and returning the faces to a single color.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Keep an eye on your loved one to ensure they don't become frustrated with this activity. Many adults without dementia can get frustrated with Rubik's Cubes!
9) $10 Large Print Playing Cards

Playing card games is an excellent activity for older adults, especially when the letters and numbers are large and easily read.
Someone with early-stage dementia might enjoy simple card games like solitaire, Go Fish, Blackjack, or War. An older adult in later stages might enjoy simply shuffling the cards or separating them by color or suit.
Please pay attention to their level of enjoyment. If they seem overwhelmed or frustrated, you may want to remove some cards so they don’t have to manage so many.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Please pay attention to their level of enjoyment. If they seem overwhelmed or frustrated, you may want to remove some cards so they don’t have to manage so many.
10) $16 Pattern Blocks and Boards

These fun shapes can be used in a variety of ways. Seniors can use the included boards to create colorful pictures, make free-form shapes, or trace the shapes on paper.
💡 Caregiver Pro-Tip: Make sure these pieces aren't ingested. They could be a choking hazard in a worst-case scenario.
📝 Your Caregiver Troubleshooting Guide
If an activity isn't working, don't be discouraged – Pivot! The key is to be observant and flexible.
- Are they agitated? Switch to a more calming, rhythmic activity (like listening to music or rocking).
- Are they unresponsive? Try a different sensory input, like a different texture or a familiar scent.
- Keep it short. Even 5 minutes of positive engagement is a success. The goal is a moment of connection, not a long project.
- Join in. Do the activity alongside them. Your calm presence is the most therapeutic part of the experience.
We hope these ideas help you find new ways to connect and bring peace to your days. What activities have worked for your loved one? Please share your ideas in the comments below.
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About the Author

Connie is the founder of DailyCaring.com and was a hands-on caregiver for her grandmother for 20 years. (Grandma made it to 101 years old!) She knows how challenging, overwhelming, and all-consuming caring for an older adult can be. She also understands the importance of support, especially in the form of practical solutions, valuable resources, and self-care tips.
My brother in law has vascular dementia. He used to work on cars, bake and fix things around the house. Now he floods the floor with water, pulls out and dirty an enormous amount of towels so we are washing continuously washing them. He hides things and takes the food out of the freezer and puts it in drawers. Sometimes he gets angered if you try to explain not to put dirty dishes in with the clean ones. What kind of activities would keep him occupied so he’s not doing these things.
That’s great thinking to find constructive activities to keep your brother-in-law’s attention. We’ve got dozens of suggestions here on our website – https://dailycaring.com/tag/alzheimers-dementia-activities/
You sound so loving and caring. I am 71 taking care of mama 95 with dementia Alzheimer’s. She keeps asking for all our dead relatives . Any ideas? Thank you for y our company.
We’ve got an article with tips on answering tough questions like these – Answer 3 Tough Questions from Seniors with Alzheimer’s https://dailycaring.com/answer-tough-questions-from-seniors-with-alzheimers-expert-advice/
I work with folks with dementia. And I love when they bring up family who I know are gone. We talk as if they are alive. And I ask open ended questions. So tell me about ? Where you two close? I bet you both got a little wild.If they wonder where they are. I simply say well you know_____ they are never on time or they are just got busy. Therapeutic fibbing. If they want to go see them. Well let’s get on the computer and make an itinerary. Talk about how they want to travel. Even print it out But ask them if you can keep it so you don’t forgot. You don’t want them keeping the paper or they might call you on it. But the next day starts a new adventure.
I’m 69 taking care of 91 mom. She too ask about relatives that have passed. I just say “ mom think about it for a minute, you’re 91, do you think your parents would still be alive? I just tell her who is still alive
I have an extraordinarily busy mom. She simply cannot be still, not even a moment. She is physically in remarkable health, so keeping up with her has become a problem. Do you have suggestions for working on focus & attention span issues?
When someone has dementia, their cognitive abilities are declining so it’s not possible to expect them to learn or improve their focus or attention span.
To keep her occupied, find a variety of activities that she enjoys so she always has something to do. We’ve got plenty of dementia activity suggestions here – https://dailycaring.com/tag/alzheimers-dementia-activities/
Music is also a wonderful thing to those with dementia . Alexa if possible has many options . Alexa’s play 50’s pop. She grew up listening to this music. 60’s top 40 etc she was saying at this time. She can’t make tea or toast or hold a “normal conversation” most of the time but she will sing every word of the songs she knows and it happy and upbeat.
It’s wonderful that she enjoys the music so much! Fantastic tip, thanks for sharing.
My husband has dementia. I am looking for clear vinyl labels to let him know where things are. Any suggestions?
A simple and flexible solution is to make your own labels with regular paper and “laminating” them with clear packing tape.
thanks for your support that is ideal for patients with difficult to remember things can help them fill their day and training their thinking abilities somehow. I am volunteering my time for searching to find such as you who are willing to inspire others with their valuable things and give to patients with memory difficult.
thanks
You’re very welcome! We’re so glad these suggestions are helpful.
Hi can you give me a easy way of putting a person who isn’t mobile to bed
It sounds like you might be looking for information on safe transfers. We’ve got an article with tips that might be helpful – How to Help Seniors Get Up Without Injuring Yourself: Safe Transfer Techniques at https://dailycaring.com/how-to-help-seniors-get-up-without-injuring-yourself-safe-transfer-techniques-video/
From a wheel chair you can get a slide board to slide hem from the chair to the bed
Hi my name is daxa. I am working at nursing home as a activity coordinator so I need some ideas. This is very helpful for me. Thanks
So glad this article is helpful! We’ve got a section of our website dedicated to activity ideas for older adults here – https://dailycaring.com/category/daily-care/activities-older-adults/
Hi there I am an activity coordinator I need some help with activities for adult I would be grateful for any fresh ideas
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We’ve got dozens of articles with senior-friendly activity ideas here on our website – https://dailycaring.com/category/daily-care/activities-older-adults/
We hope you’ll be able to find some new ideas that your residents will enjoy!
Hi my name is Maggie.I am an Activity assistant.Here are a few activities that I do with residents with Dementia or Alhiemers. Sing-a-longs. White board: We play jeapody. Memory games.I will place letters,pictures,birds,numbers,colors,etc on the white board and take away one..two..then ask them what I took away.Trivia for 30’s, 40’s or 50’s.Tic Tac Toe on the white board.I spy with my little eye..things in the room.I also do crafts.Reading group.Painting.We read the newspaper…only the good things and of course Dear Abby.Movie time with drinks and snacks.Flower arrangments.
These are wonderful activity suggestions! Thanks for sharing 💜
I am an activity coordinator, many people I work with have middle to late stages of dementia, I find activities to suit all. We have a handful of people who haven’t dementia, they join in a couple of activities if it appeals to them, but mainly likes to stay in their room doing their knitting etc. I have one lady who wants to do more, she only been with us for a few weeks and keeps saying she is bored, she complains that people don’t talk to her, and when an activity is on she gets quite frustrated and says it’s too childish, or there is not enough activities on, I accommodate her as much as possible, I give her one to one, she plays bingo then complains it’s not enough people, I do quizzes, planting, bakery, arts crafts, she hates music and singing. She don’t like knitting, sewing, reading. I offered to have a game of cards with her, and have asked her what she would like to do, answer is always the same, she not interested in nothing, then complains there is not enough activities we a small home of 33 residents. So any help will be welcomed, she is quite hard of hearing as well. I just want her to be happy.
It’s wonderful that you’re so thoughtful in helping your residents find activities that suit them.
It’s possible that this new resident needs more time to adjust to her new living situation and isn’t necessarily complaining about the specific activities. Moving is a big change and she may be feeling out of sorts and so, is expressing that through these complaints.
Perhaps you could speak with her with the goal of getting to know her better. Developing a relationship with her might help her feel more comfortable and give you clues to the types of activities that would interest her.
Get clear glue and different plastic tops (margarine, yogurt etc) “fill/apply” clear elmers glue and place “flattened “ marbles in a pattern on top over glue. Let dry for about 4 days. Pop out of plastic lid. Either affix to magnet or hang in windows.
Wonderful idea, thanks for sharing!
I live with an elderly lady with dementia who can’t read, she can sign her name but doesn’t like anything to do with writing or coloring. So I blew up 2 small balloons and 1 large balloon, we use the small ones to hit the large one back and forth to each other. She loves it !
Fantastic idea, that sounds like a lot of fun!