Get peace of mind when getting caregiving help
If youāre concerned or feeling guilty about hiring someone to help care for your older adult, youāre not alone.
Even if you wish you could be there for them 24/7, itās not realistic. To keep going as a long-term caregiver, you need regular breaks and time for yourself.
Thatās why getting help with caregiving is so important.
But when youāve hired an in home caregiver to help you care for your older adult, you might still worry about what happens when youāre not around.
Previously, we covered simple ways to keep an eye on your hired caregiver.
When you know that your older adultās needs are being met and theyāre treated kindly, it puts your mind at ease. That allows you to relax and enjoy your well-deserved time away from caregiving.
Here, we share 3 tips that help you feel even more confident that your older adult is getting good care. Theyāll also help you spot red flags so you can proactively prevent serious problems.
3 tips for getting peace of mind when using an in home caregiver
1. Keep background checks up to date
Even if the initial background check on your in home caregiver didnāt show any problems, itās a good idea to repeat the process every 6 to 12 months.
This keeps you aware of any changes or updates.
Check their name against national databases, local court records, and state elder abuse registries (if available).
Verify their Social Security number to see if theyāve used any other names. If they drive your older adult around, check their driving record too.
If you hired through a home care agency, find out how often the agency refreshes background checks and which databases they check against to make sure their checks are comprehensive.
2. Be alert for signs of trouble
If the caregiver isnāt doing a good job, there will probably be some warning signs.
If you notice anything that makes you feel uneasy, trust your gut. Check into the situation to find out more and keep track of repeat occurrences.
Sure, accidents do happen once in a while, but frequent accidents point to a problem.
Some examples of red flags:
- The caregiver ignores your instructions and does things when and how they choose.
- You canāt reach the caregiver when theyāre with your older adult.
- The caregiver is obviously focused on their phone, TV, or computer.
- Your older adultās personal hygiene is being neglected.
- Your older adult shows unexplainable signs of physical or mental trauma, like bruising, sudden change of behavior (fear, agitation), etc.
- The caregiver doesnāt seem to care about household safety.
- You see multiple negative reviews of the caregiver on reputable websites.
3. Use video cameras for monitoring
Monitoring with video cameras is often used to discourage abuse. The point isnāt to catch someone in the act, but to prevent it from happening in the first place.
If you plan to use cameras to monitor a hired caregiver, be upfront about it when theyāre hired.
Honest caregivers usually wonāt mind being recorded if theyāre aware that itās happening. Plus, this also protects them from false accusations.
But someone could be justifiably angry if they found out later that youāve been secretly recording them.
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- Affordable In Home Care: 8 Ways to Lower Senior Care Costs
By DailyCaring Editorial Team
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